Lilia has a well written posting about privacy after a funny find in my and her referrer logs.

She ends with:
a lot of my life is online, but you’ll have to read the whole story to discover

Exactly. My life is not a secret. I decided it should be that way shortly after I first got on line daily some 15 years back and realized the traces I left. It is all out there for all to see. But you have to care (one way or another) to find out.